Krishna and Dhritarashtra - The Blind King's Embrace
A conversation between Krishna and Dhritarashtra
Context
After the war, when the victorious Pandavas come to pay respects, Dhritarashtra's grief-turned-rage nearly causes him to kill Bhima. Krishna's intervention and subsequent conversation reveals the consequences of blind attachment.
The Dialogue
The old king's arms were open, waiting. Bhima stepped forward to receive the blessing.
Krishna: "Not Bhima,"
Krishna said sharply, pulling the warrior back and substituting an iron statue of Bhima instead.
Dhritarashtra's embrace crushed the statue into powder. The blind king's strengthâstrength that had never been used in battle, strength hoarded over decadesâhad been meant to destroy his nephew.
Silence. Then Dhritarashtra's hands began to tremble as he realized what he had almost done. What he had meant to do.
Dhritarashtra: "How did you know?"
he whispered.
Krishna guided the shaking king to a seat.
Krishna: "I know hatred, Maharaj. I know the face it wears when it pretends to be grief."
Dhritarashtra: "I would have killed him."
Krishna: "Yes."
Dhritarashtra: "And felt nothing. In that moment, I would have felt nothing but satisfaction."
Krishna: "And then?"
Dhritarashtra: "And then... I would have been a murderer. I would have killed my own nephewâa boy I watched grow upâin a moment of blind rage. I would have become exactly what I always feared."
Krishna: "Which is?"
Dhritarashtra: "My father. Do you know how I was born, Krishna? Vyasa came to my mother, and she closed her eyes in fear of his form. Because she could not look at truth, I was born blind. I have lived my entire life unable to seeâand I convinced myself that blindness made me wise. That not seeing made me objective. But I was blind in heart too. Blind to Duryodhana's evil. Blind to my own resentment."
Krishna: "You could have seen it. You chose not to."
Dhritarashtra: "Yes. Every time Vidura warned me, I told myself he was jealous. Every time Bhishma counseled restraint, I told myself he was senile. I had a hundred chances to stop this, and I closed my eyes to every single one."
Krishna: "Why?"
Dhritarashtra: "Because my son was winning. Because for the first time in my life, I had power. Not borrowed power from Bhishma's loyalty or Pandu's throneâmy power, through my son. Duryodhana's victories were my victories. His throne would have been my redemption."
Krishna: "And his crimes?"
Dhritarashtra: "Were easy to unsee when I was already blind."
Krishna sat beside the old king.
Krishna: "What will you do now?"
Dhritarashtra: "Die, I suppose. Slowly. In the forest with Gandhari and Kunti, waiting for the fire that finally takes us. It's more than I deserve."
Krishna: "Perhaps. But before that death, there is still life. The Pandavas will need counsel. They will need someone who understands the mistakes that led to this war."
Dhritarashtra: "They hate me."
Krishna: "Yudhishthira does not hate. Bhima... Bhima has reason. But time may soften that. What matters is whether you can offer wisdom born of failure. That is the rarest wisdom."
Dhritarashtra: "Wisdom. What wisdom can a blind fool offer?"
Krishna: "The wisdom of hindsight. The wisdom of regret. You know exactly which choices led to destructionâyou made all of them. Someday, a young king will sit where Duryodhana sat, and you can tell him: I know where this road leads. I walked it. Turn back."
Dhritarashtra: "And if he doesn't listen? If he closes his eyes as I did?"
Krishna: "Then at least the warning was given. We cannot control what others do with truth. We can only speak it."
Dhritarashtra: "Will you help me stand? I would like to properly greet my nephews. Without the iron statue this time."
Krishna helped him rise.
Krishna: "They loved you once, Maharaj. Before Duryodhana. Before the dice game. They remember the uncle who bounced them on his knee."
Dhritarashtra: "That man is dead."
Krishna: "No. That man was buried. Today, he begins to dig himself out."
The blind king took his first step toward the Pandavasânot as an enemy, not as a threat, but as an old man finally opening his eyes.
⨠Key Lesson
Willful blindness to the truth is worse than physical blindness. Attachment to our children's victories can blind us to their crimes. Wisdom born of failure, if shared honestly, may prevent others from repeating our mistakes.