Arjuna and Yudhishthira - The Quarrel Over Failure

A conversation between Arjuna and Yudhishthira

Context

On the fourteenth day of war, after Arjuna fails to kill Jayadratha before sunset (though he eventually succeeds), Yudhishthira's criticism leads to the only time Arjuna almost kills his own brother.

The Dialogue

The tent was thick with incense and tension. Yudhishthira paced while Arjuna stood at the entrance, still covered in dust and blood.

Yudhishthira: "He escaped, Jayadratha escaped."

Arjuna: "He escaped for a moment. I still killed him."

Yudhishthira: "After sunset. After you swore to do it before. After making an oath you couldn't keep."

Arjuna: "An oath I did keep. He's dead. The sun set, and then I killed him. What more do you want?"

Yudhishthira: "I want a brother who doesn't make promises his pride writes and his skill can't cash. I want a warrior who thinks before he swears."

Arjuna felt something old and dark stir in his chest.

Yudhishthira: "And I want a king who fights his own battles. Where were you today while I was cutting through the entire Kaurava army alone? Playing dice?"

The silence was absolute.

Arjuna: "What did you say?"

Yudhishthira: "I said what everyone thinks. I said what your brothers have choked on for thirteen years. You gambled us into exile. You gambled Draupadi into humiliation. And now you sit in safety while the rest of us pay for your failures in blood."

Arjuna: "I am your king."

Yudhishthira: "You are my brother. And a brother who criticizes my combat from the comfort of a tent has no standing to lecture me about oaths."

Arjuna: "I lost everything! I made one mistake—"

Yudhishthira: "One mistake? You went back to the dice table after losing everything once. That's not a mistake. That's an addiction wearing a crown."

Yudhishthira stepped forward, his face contorted.

Yudhishthira: "At least I have the courage to acknowledge my failures. You—you wrap yourself in divine weapons and unbeatable skill and pretend you're above reproach. But Abhimanyu is dead because you weren't there. Ghatotkacha is dead because you weren't there. How many will die tomorrow because Arjuna, the great Arjuna, couldn't do what he promised?"

Arjuna's hand went to his sword.

For one terrible moment, the Gandiva-bearer stood ready to kill the Dharma-raja. Brother against brother. The very dissolution they were fighting to prevent.

Yudhishthira: "Do it, If that's what you think of me. If I'm such a failure, such a burden—end it. You'll be doing me a favor."

Arjuna's hand trembled.

Arjuna: "You know the code, Anyone who insults the Gandiva must die by the sword. You just called it worthless."

Yudhishthira: "I called your oath-making reckless. Your bow is a tool. Your judgment—that's what I questioned."

Arjuna: "My judgment has kept you alive for eighteen years of exile and war. My judgment—"

Yudhishthira: "Enough."

The voice was Krishna's. Neither had heard him enter.

Arjuna: "Both of you, sit."

They didn't sit. But they stopped advancing.

Yudhishthira: "Arjuna, you came within a breath of killing your eldest brother. That would have destroyed everything. Do you understand?"

Arjuna: "He insulted—"

Yudhishthira: "He was afraid. He was exhausted. He spoke poorly. That's not a capital offense unless you've lost all perspective. And you. You know what Arjuna did today. You know the impossible he made possible. And you greeted him with criticism instead of gratitude."

Arjuna: "I was worried—"

Yudhishthira: "You were taking your fear out on the one person who's held this war together. That's not dharma. That's stress wearing dharma's mask."

The brothers looked at each other. The rage was fading, replaced by something more terrible—the recognition of what they'd almost done.

Yudhishthira: "Brother, I... I spoke wrongly."

Arjuna: "And I almost killed you for it. What have we become?"

Yudhishthira: "War, You've become what war makes everyone. The question is whether you'll stay there or climb out."

Arjuna: "How do we climb out?"

Yudhishthira: "By remembering why you're fighting. Not for revenge. Not for pride. Not to prove who's right or who's stronger. For dharma. For a kingdom where this conversation never has to happen again."

Arjuna embraced his brother. The movement was awkward—warriors aren't trained for tenderness—but it was real.

Arjuna: "Forgive me,"

he whispered.

Yudhishthira: "Forgive me,"

Yudhishthira replied.

Arjuna: "Both of you, get some rest, Tomorrow's battle won't fight itself. And this war needs you both—alive and not trying to murder each other."

✨ Key Lesson

Even the righteous can turn on each other under pressure. Fear and exhaustion corrupt judgment as surely as malice. The wars outside are mirrored by wars within.