Krishna Tells Kunti Why Devotees Suffer

A conversation between Kunti and Krishna

Context

After the Kurukshetra war, when Krishna is about to leave for Dwaraka

The Dialogue

As Krishna prepared to leave for Dwaraka after the great war, Queen Kunti approached him. She had spent her life in suffering — widowed young, exiled with five sons, watching them gamble away their kingdom, seeing her daughter-in-law humiliated, and finally witnessing the deaths of millions including her own grandsons.

Kunti: "Keshava, before you leave, I must ask you something that has burned in my heart for years."

Krishna: "Ask, Mata."

Kunti: "I have worshipped you all my life. My sons are devoted to you. You call us your family. Yet look at our lives — exile, humiliation, war, death. The Kauravas who ignored you lived in palaces while we wandered in forests. Why? Why do those who love you suffer more?"

Krishna: "What would you have me give you, Mata? Ask, and it is yours."

Kunti: "I am asking a question, not a boon."

Kunti: "And I am giving you a choice. I can give you what I give to those who do not know me — wealth, comfort, a peaceful life, an easy death. Do you want that?"

Krishna: "If you had given us that... would we have become who we are?"

Kunti: "Now you are answering your own question."

Krishna: "The forest taught my sons humility. The exile taught them endurance. The humiliations taught them the price of adharma. Without suffering..."

Kunti: "Without suffering, Yudhishthira would have been a comfortable king, not Dharmaraja. Without suffering, Arjuna would have been a skilled archer, not the one who received the Gita. Without suffering, Bhima would have been strong, not unstoppable. Suffering did not break you — it forged you."

Kunti: "Then give me more suffering, Govinda."

Krishna: "Mata?"

Kunti: "Give me difficulties. Because in difficulty, I remember you. In comfort, I might forget. In pain, I cry out your name. In pleasure, I might call other names. Let calamities come again and again so that I may see you again and again. For seeing you means no more rebirth."

Krishna: "This is why I call you mother. Others ask for my blessings to remove obstacles. You ask for obstacles so that you never stop seeking me."

Kunti: "What else can I ask? Kingdoms burn. Youth fades. Children die. Only you remain. Only you were there when I was young, when I was exiled, when I wept, when I celebrated. Let me never be so comfortable that I forget the only one who was always there."

✨ Key Lesson

Difficulties keep us connected to the Divine. Comfort can lead to forgetfulness. The highest devotees don't pray for problems to be removed — they pray to never forget God even in problems.